Candy Snatch Chats

pink-hearts-background_20161106193409302A collection of articles and posts covering a range of subjects. Candy Snatch Chats about all kinds of issues and lends her own sex positive spin to life.

Why I Was Too Afraid to Speak Out. #MeToo

Much has been written in the media recently about the Harvey Weinstein sexual harassment scandal in Hollywood. I’ve been watching the reaction to the various allegations all over Twitter with some dismay. Plenty of people have been lining up to point out that often the women still took the role and to condemn them for...

Who Says Girls Don’t Wank?

  It always makes me laugh when I make a reference to wanking on Twitter and someone tells me girls can't wank. Well someone needs to tell my clit that. I've been getting myself off long before I understood the mechanics of what I was doing. There has been a long-held perception that whilst masturbation...

Tips For Taking a Sexy Selfie

One of the wonderful things about running your own site is feedback and interaction with the folk who read your posts. Recently I’ve had a lot of people asking for tips on taking your own pics for sexy selfies or lingerie reviews. Inspired by the amazing Georgine Horne (if you aren’t following you should...

Switching on to being a Switch

So this is my first attempt at a blog. I've been reviewing sex toys online for about a year now and feel like I'd like to have somewhere of my own to post them as well as guesting on other sites. For as long as I can remember sex has played the biggest role in...

Losing Control in a Relationship

I talk a lot about power exchanges in relationships and how exciting it can be. But consensual power exchange is different to control. I’ve been debating writing this post for a few weeks, after a discussion at work. I ended up tearfully confiding in a colleague after her telling me about her daughter being...

Tantric Massage with Xmassage

We all know the benefits of a good massage. And most of us have incorporated it into our foreplay. Candlelight and oils make a fantastic way to get a partner in the mood. But have you heard of Tantric Massage? Tantra has been practised for over 9000 years dating back to the Himalayans in India....

Please Baby?….

I'm Not Submissive I’m not a submissive person. Those of you who are unlucky enough to know me well will know I’m forthright and sometimes downright aggressive. Loud, opinionated and spiky are all words which have been applied to yours truly at times. So, it confuses even me that I should enjoy being sexually submissive. Don’t...

I Licked It So It’s Mine!

One of the most intimate acts you can enjoy during sex is oral. There's nothing more likely to break down those boundaries than teasing your tongue over your loved one and tasting their excitement. It's one of the things you can do simultaneously to give equal amounts of pleasure to each other. There's no denying...

When Candy Met The Scarlet Ladies

Unless you live in a bubble its likely you’ll have heard of the Scarlet Ladies. This sex positive female community embraces feminist values whilst still recognising the importance and power of female sexuality. I regularly see their various events advertised on my Twitter timeline so you can imagine how thrilled I was to be...

Pink Hair, Don’t Care!!! Learning to Love Myself

I am, what is occasionally referred to as a “sexy sex blogger”. Not only do I write reviews and posts on kink related stuff from an educational angle but I celebrate my own innate sexuality as well. Sometimes this is in erotic writing, sometimes in pictures of lingerie I’m reviewing, sometimes it’s Sinful Sunday....