Once upon a time my sex toy collection was all about the vibrations. Buzzy, rumbly delicious vibes. In fact, it was all I owned at one point. But recently I’ve noticed a creeping trend in my bedside drawer. I always know if I love a toy by how long it remains in my bedside table. If its something I’m using all the time it can’t be stored away. This weekend I went to get something out of my drawer and realised its chock full of silicone dildos now.

Dildo’s are often considered the second-class citizen of the sex toy world. They don’t buzz or light up. They’re just big dumb lumps. But oh, how I love them. Despite my favourite way of orgasming being clitorally I can’t help the feelz I get when I’m holding a big thick dildo.

Intense Sensation

I think this is purely down to the intense delicious full sensation I get from a good dildo. There isn’t much in life as satisfying as being able to control penetration to meet your exact requirements. I find it so frustrating when guys change the pace just as you get close. Or decide to try and nail you to the bed when you’re feeling like a long slow session. I can make sure my penetration is exactly what I’m feeling with the help of one of my silicone buddies.

My collection ranges because different dildos have different jobs. And strangely once I assign them a task they rarely deviate from that. For example, certain dildos have become my favourite for anal. They are perfectly shaped and sized for this purpose. I dislike texture anally and so if I receive a slim smooth dildo I immediately think that’s how I want to use it.

Anal Dildos

Examples of dildos which have become my anal best friends are The Tantus Curve, the Godemiche Ambit, the Avant D2, the Fun Factory Magnum or Amor. These are all slim and smooth shafted with nice large bases. They’re perfect for anal fun with a partner, or on my own. Some of them are paired with other favourite dildos to make DP combo partners. For example, The Fun Factory Boss and Magnum, The Godemiche Adam and Ambit or the Avant D4 and D2.

For pegging I have specific requirements. I only like silicone as I find it most comfortable in a harness. My current favourite pegging dildo is the Fun Factory Magnum. It’s a nice slender shape and works brilliantly in a harness. I find it’s not too challenging either and this can sometimes be what puts men off trying anal.

All Time Favourite

For vaginal fun I play total favourites. I have my all time favourite dildo, the Fun Factory Boss. This dildo is without doubt the Daddy of my dildo collection. It hits my G spot infallibly and if I want to squirt then this is the one I pick. It feels amazing in use, it’s thick dimensions and solid shaft fill me up and I’ve lost many weekend mornings to playing with this bad boy.

Another favourite for purely penetrative play is the Godemiche Adam, this is the chunkiest most solid dildo which I return to time and time again. The straight thick shaft doesn’t give me much in the way of G Spot stimulation, but you know when you just crave being filled? Yeah that’s the Adam’s job. It does it in a way few other average sized dildos manage. I really enjoy penetrating myself with the Adam during anal with a partner. It totally changes all the sensations.

Squirting

A recent arrival to my collection is the Avant D4 Sexy in Pink. This is a large dildo with striking colours on the shaft. There is some light texture to the D4 but for me it’s the large bulbed head which makes this dildo special. Up against my G Spot this feels amazing. This is another one which I turn to when I feel like I want to squirt. I also love this one being used on me by someone else. It’s a great size and shape.

Texture is something I need to be in the mood for. Sometimes I love it and other times I can take it or leave it. Two textured dildos have become my go-to faves. The Fun Factory Tiger and the Split Peaches Rivetor. Both are extreme in respect of texture. The Tiger has raised silicone stripes and the Rivetor is covered in silicone rivets. These dildos are only ever used vaginally for me. They offer a different sensation when I feel like I need more than just penetration.

Size Matters

Size is often something I’m looking for in a silicone dildo, as I mentioned with the Boss and Adam. Another dildo which is generously sized is the Avant D4 Sexy in Pink. But if I’m craving a real filling I turn to the MEO Think Pink 8-inch dildo. This one is huge. The length and girth are such that I need a warm up to get the dildo inside me. For me this isn’t a regular choice but when I’m feeling like I need extreme then this is what I turn to.

If you enjoy penetration then a silicone dildo is an excellent choice, they don’t have to be expensive and if they’re looked after they will last ages. Being body safe they’re easy to clean and worry free in terms of infections etc. They make great additions to play with a partner or for penetration when you’re on your own. Just remember you can only use water-based lube with silicone toys.

 

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